We think we know. Maybe we actually want to know. Reality is, we can't even begin to understand what it means to walk or live in the shoes of others. They will never quite fit. Frankly, they aren't meant to fit. They aren't our shoes.
So much damage is done by our words and actions when we make judgments about others. I can't even count on two hands the times I ended up finding out I placed my foot in my mouth because of my wrong conclusions. Many relationships have been destroyed due to an unwillingness to give another person the benefit of the doubt.
What would life be like if we actually learned to keep our shoes on and walk beside others while they walk in theirs instead of trying to put theirs on?